We’re having conversations that matter during the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence

    Published 8 November 2024
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    We all deserve to be safe, equal and respected.

    That’s why, as a part of our campaign for this years' 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence, we are encouraging men in our community to have meaningful conversations about how outdated stereotypes and assumptions can affect our health and wellbeing, our relationships and lead to violence against women.

    The 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence is a global campaign led annually by UN Women. It runs every year from 25 November (the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women) to 10 December (International Human Rights Day), recognising that violence against women and girls is one of the most prevalent human rights abuses in the world.

    Unfortunately, more than 1 in 3 women in Australia have experienced men’s violence. Safety for women is not a given in any community – and neither is respect.  We can all do our part to create healthy and respectful relationships by learning how to challenge harmful gender stereotypes and assumptions in a safe and supportive way.

    This year, we have two key events planned to host these conversations in a safe and respectful space.

    Conversations That Matter: An Evening For Men with special guest Darcy Moore

    Tuesday 19 November from 5.30 pm to 8pm at Caulfield Park Pavilion, 280 Balaclava Road, Caulfield North

    This event engages attendees in meaningful conversation to explore how men can better look after themselves, their partners, their friends and their community. Facilitated by Tomorrow Man with special guest Collingwood Football Club Captain Darcy Moore.

    This event will give participants tools and skills to improve their mental health and build stronger connections between one another and those they care about.

    This is a free event, with pies and light refreshments provided. Registrations required, so book your spot today.  

    Please note, this event is designed for men and male-identifying people aged 18 years and over. It is facilitated by Tomorrow Man and supported by Respect Victoria, Safe and Equal, City of Glen Eira, City of Port Phillip and City of Stonnington.

    No Buts the book: a conversation with men who changed their behaviour

    Monday 25 November, 6 pm to 7 pm at St Kilda Library

    Change can happen.  

    As a society, we hear about the shocking cases of murder and violence perpetrated by men against women. But we rarely hear from the men who live with guilt and shame and want to change their abusive behaviour.  

    Join us in this safe space, where we will hear from men who have changed their violent and abusive behaviour, with the aim of understanding their lived experience and encouraging other men to seek help.   

    Facilitated by Margaret Chipperfield, social worker and survivor. Margaret compiled the stories in No Buts after working with men in a Men’s Behaviour Change Program for over 11 years.  

    This is a free event. Bookings essential.

    Please note, this event is strictly for adults aged 18 years and over, and will discuss subject matter that may be distressing to some attendees  

    Help and Support

    If you are worried about someone, or need to seek help yourself, please contact one of the support services below.

    In an emergency or if you are or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call 000 for Police and/or Ambulance assistance.

    The following crisis and counselling services are available 24/7:

    For more on the campaign and further resources, visit  Family violence - City of Port Phillip